Carmen and I are learning about honesty in our pre-marital counseling and I can see why secrets can destroy relationships. You need to know the person you are marrying and a good relationship can’t be built on lies. How do you get closer to someone that you are not sure you know?
Important things to be honest in:
- past relationships
- share you calendar so the other person doesn’t have to guess what u are doing all the time
- what you hope for in the future
- finances- what you buy and why you buy it